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Five Questions to Ensure a Lasting and Committed Romantic Relationship.
One of the greatest feelings in life is opening up so completely to both you and your romantic partner that time and space cease to exist so that all that is left is pure love and unconditional acceptance on all levels mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Romantic relationships often seem so complex, but are actually very simple.
If you have experienced a failed relationship or are wanting to be in a great relationship right now but afraid that it will not work out, or you are in a relationship that is very challenging and not fulfilling, then read on. What you are about to read will help you enormously with both your current and/or future relationships.
While speaking with a personal life coaching client about two years ago, an approach to how relationships work or don’t work unfolded in my mind that helped me to understand why people, myself included, create disastrous and failed relationships and how we can attract loving, long-term and successful relationships. This approach has since helped many individuals and couples to understand what ‘vibes’ they had been giving off and what they needed to do differently to attract what they were looking for in someone for a relationship to work. It also explains why over 50% of North American marriages have resulted in divorce over the past 20 years.
If your relationship stays as it is right now, we can also use this tool to determine in under one minute whether your relationship will last!
There are five areas of your life that need to be stimulated. And there are five areas of your current or future partner’s life that need to be stimulated as well.
Each area for each of you needs to be stimulated by your romantic partner for your relationship to last long-term.
The simplest way to see how this works is to put your left hand out in front of you so that you are looking at your palm, palm facing you and spread your fingers apart…
Each finger will represent a different area.
The five areas of fulfillment in a romantic relationship include (and are in no particular order):
1. Spiritual Fulfillment (this includes your heart-to-heart connection and relates to your openness, giving, and sharing experience with one another)
2. Emotional Fulfillment (this relates to emotional maturity, patience, and nurturing support)
3. Mental Fulfillment (this includes creative, intellectual, and/or verbal stimulation)
4. Physical Fulfillment (this includes physical connection such as holding hands, kissing, hugging, and cuddling along with romantic embracing and sexual connections)
5. External Fulfillment (this includes social and familial relationships, finances, and material possessions that you may share with one another)
These are the 5 areas of your life in which you must feel inspired by your partner for your relationship to really be fulfilling and meaningful.
At the same time, these are the 5 areas of your partner’s life in which he/she must feel inspired by you for your relationship to really be fulfilling and meaningful.
The key to this method lies in which of these areas are your top three and which are the top 3 most important for your spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend.
So as we look at your left hand, you may feel that the three most important of these five areas are spiritual fulfillment as your number one, emotional fulfillment as your number two, and external fulfillment as your number three.
Now place your right hand in front of you, as this represents your partner. He/she also has his/her top three areas.
Your top three do not have to be the same as your partner’s top three for your relationship to thrive. However, you must be supporting your partner’s top three and he/she must be supporting your top three for your relationship to thrive and to be one of unconditional love and support, respect and inspiration. You both need to feel stimulated in those top three areas and must be willing to honour each others’ top three areas unconditionally, with love and kindness.
Although we shouldn’t “need” stimulation from anyone to feel fulfilled or whole, sometimes that is the only way that we can experience fulfillment.
Sometimes, and more often than not, it is the stimulation from others that reminds us who we really are… especially at those times when we are the least centered and grounded, when we need it the most.
If you are in a romantic relationship with someone who is not stimulating you spiritually, and spiritual fulfillment is the most important area of your life, or at least in your top three, you will always feel like you are lacking a connection with your partner.
If you are with someone who is not stimulating you mentally or intellectually, then you will feel like you have nothing to speak about, which will result in a feeling of disconnect.
If you are with someone who is not comfortable with themselves physically, or not willing to share their entire body with yours and vice versa along with every aspect of it, you will feel shut out and unfulfilled sexually.
Ideally, you want to be inspired by the person you are in romance with, and, hopefully, inspiring to him/her.
It is when we are stimulated in those top three areas that our walls come down, that we become softer, more confident, more supportive and more open. This is the essence of intimate communion. This is why if you feel really connected within you and with your partner, it wouldn’t matter to you if your partner didn’t put the toilet seat down or clean the toothpaste tube.
Ultimately there are three ways for you to experience a loving and unconditional relationship…
1. You must find love in yourself first without needing to be loved by your partner and then be freely giving of love with your partner, or,
2. Attract a partner who is very willing to fulfill your top three areas, while you also fulfill his/hers, or
3. Be content with not being in a relationship, which means you would ultimately bring you back to number 1. anyway.
You can also use the following five questions to stimulate, invigorate and inspire your relationship:
1. What are the top three most important aspects of stimulation for you in your relationship?
a. Spiritual
b. Emotional
c. Physical
d. Mental
e. External
2. What are the top three most important areas of stimulation for your partner? (don’t guess or think you know… ASK YOUR PARTNER!!!)
3. Are you willing to commit to a co-creative relationship with your partner that involves you loving him/her in those areas that are most important to him/her?
4. Can you be absolutely honest in sharing with your partner your needs and ultimate desires (which may include unspoken fantasies) in those three important areas for you?
5. What is one action you will take this week with your partner to honour each others most important #1 area?
These questions are especially useful if you are single. As a single person, these questions will be very helpful so that you don’t just settle for what comes to you. Instead these questions offer you the opportunity to determine what you truly desire in a relationship and what you are willing to give!
There is another beautiful saying, “love is not only experienced in gazing at each other, but rather in gazing forward together in the same direction.”
Until next time, may you experience inspiration in your relationship beyond what you have ever imagined and may you always feel the love that is here for you.
Have a great week and Be-Inspired!
Warmly,
Joshua Zuchter
About the Author
As an International Speaker, Author, and Personal Life Coach, Joshua Zuchter (www.joshuazuchter.com) has inspired thousands to discover their potential and live inspired lives. His weekly e-zine Be-Inspired is becoming the premier source of weekly inspiration for people world-wide and his message is clear… live and love from a place of inspiration.
The Reality of Attraction and Dating in a Post Modern Society
By Rion Williams.
Men are wondering “what is wrong with the women (and why do
they treat us like this)”? and women are wondering, “Where
are all the real men?”
Guys want to be a nice guy and they will even do what
society tells them to when it comes to dating and attracting
women yet almost none of it works. In fact it usually repels
women away or incites them to reluctantly partake in the
free gifts they’re getting in exchange for their own time
even though the women are bored, not really interested and
definitely not attracted.
Societal ‘dating’ is a lot of presumptuous false
expectations and ideals that cater to her social leanings
and not what her heart truly desires (also because few of
these men have ‘character’).
Despite what the experts say, it often ends up being what
neither of them want (to appease arcane social norms) and
the guy goes home with an emptier wallet and a good night
hug and she’ll end up (having sex) with a jerk who she is
biologically attracted to.
If he’s ‘lucky’ he can maybe this beautiful woman’s friend.
“Let’s just be friends”…the kiss of death for him if he
only wanted something else.
So in order for men to be more effective with dating they’re
going to have to do some different things. And I’m not
talking about becoming someone they’re not so they have to
’seduce’ women or act like a jerk, be a playboy or even to
‘give her some of her own medicine’.
Women are just wondering why that can’t find a man they are
attracted to who actually IS healthy and stable.
First of all society promotes ‘courtship’ which is a
socially derived function which worked great throughout
modern history when people lived in the same communities and
the focus was immediately on raising a family. Simply put,
things changed.
Today’s independent women are more interested in exercising
their freedoms and seeing what happens instead of putting up
with all of the implied expectations dealing with having to
marry each guy they go out with.
Take a look at the hit ‘Sex and the City’. Quite a long ways
from ‘Leave it to Beaver’ (and modern programming would have
been blasphemy back then; that’s how far we’ve come).
So I don’t know why dating experts keep teaching dating as
courtship; it’s just so antiquated. Is it really to
‘protect’ women (who are more independent and powerful than
ever before anyways)?
Maybe they just don’t want to face the reality of what women
want.
Yes, most women eventually want to get married but they want
it to happen casually and naturally when they meet a guy now
to see how it develops (with someone she’s interested in)
INSTEAD OF having guys wooing and courting her from date
number one with flowers, dinner, walking on eggshells and lots
of incoming phone calls from someone she’s not interested in
(unless she’s letting her parents or social expectations rule
the decision).
Usually that’s a
with plus the guy’s are coming on too heavy and it’s SO
predictable…they all seem the same to her just about and
it’s very tiring. Now it’s the good guys who are getting
their hearts trampled (see pop music) by these women.
In a traditional ‘dating’ situation (which we know
mainstream society promotes) she’s not necessarily being
herself (although her grandma may have been), she’s being
what society tells her to be (although times have changed)
and how to act.
Plus the man isn’t getting anywhere either because he’s
putting a fake foot forward to essentially buy her attention.
He’s not being his true self upfront and those things will
surface later on both ends anyways. With the progression of
independence and advancement in both men and women, there’s
more ‘demons’ that are being hidden as well as incompatible
personality traits.
Not to mention that everyone looking for a ‘date’ is only
looking for an interpersonal solution for themselves…they
don’t really know the other person, just what they are
judging.
So, if a man follows society’s advice of (courtship)
‘dating’ women, it’s like living an incongruency (or lie)
with what he REALLY wants and what she wants unless they
really ARE looking and about ready to get married.
Most single, young (and now older) men want to have physical
relationships and aren’t looking to get married right away
until they really get to know a woman and courting her isn’t
really getting to know her.
If there was a price on love then a lot of people would be
permanently out of luck. Women know that love doesn’t cost a
thing and I believe it (ie. J.Lo’s natural and not social
side) yet people will continue to try and buy her affection.
Today, desirable and empowered women want to express their
(newfound) sexual freedom without having to have this guy
dragging her down. Basically girls really DO just want to
have fun but there’s so much PRESSURE.
Now a man can do this without having to seduce her or be the
nice guy of courting her and getting both of them nowhere.
Most importantly he doesn’t have to become someone he’s not
or being an abusive jerk just to succeed.
If men and women could just be upfront, casual and honest
with each other in their intentions they could both have a
lot of fun and get to know each other without false
expectations.
And another important point, sex isn’t likely to happen with
traditional courtship dating because society tells her to
delay sex so she can hold onto a keeper (which makes sense
for COURTSHIP). The focus is more on their
social/fake/expected relationship and less on who they
really are as people.
When guys take the ‘dating route, it’s like they have a
hidden agenda to get somewhere with her taking this route
and she knows it and in the wrong metaframe of courtship
with him pursuing, it makes her want him less.
It looks like he’s hiding his true self and paying for her
attention. She often feels obligated to give him at least a
hug in exchange for everything he bought her and yet she’ll
run off with a more dangerous man she is attracted to
because of the way SHE feels when she’s around him.
She doesn’t get these feelings of intoxication from the
wooing, low independent character men who are responding to
their perception of her. She wants to be respected and
treated as an equal (and nice guys put her above themselves)
so she often ends up pursuing an independent man.
Women have changed dramatically in a social and personal
matter so that they now have tremendous power, capability
and favor in life. They’re marrying later and less
interested in men wooing them when it comes to attraction
and dating (unless they want to take material advantage of
the resources men are throwing at them).
A woman will often wonder if she will ever find a real man
who she can just have a fun and REAL time with which may or
may not naturally end up in sex. She doesn’t want men
following her around like a whipped puppy, having them by
the string and not respecting her own independence.
Gold-diggers might like this to maintain high social status
but healthy women don’t feel attraction for these men. It’s
unnatural.
The power has shifted and it’s changed almost everything.
Tradition is thrown off course and nature itself is being
slapped in the face by social culture and it’s influence
(just turn on the t.v. and you’ll be inundated with it
non-stop).
Men are wondering what went wrong and if they themselves are
the problem when it comes to dating. Their entire psyche and
outlook on reality has been affected and this affects all
areas of their life.
All of this is NOT desirable to alot of these women who have
really improved themselves in all of the aspects of their
life…a woman doesn’t want to settle for LESS, she wants
men that are worthy of her time and not afraid of her for
just being herself (who she has become).
Little does she know though that she would be a completely
different woman if she were raised in another culture.
Little do men realize that they would have natural success
with women without really trying if they went to many other
cultures in the world.
They would be SHOCKED to find that ‘it just happens’. This
is what nature or intelligent design intended. This
realization on my part is what I call ‘cultural
differentiation’.
The socio-cultural ‘forced reality’ which began in
around the 1960’s has influenced the relationship dynamics
of countless millions of people now around much of the
world. It’s the impetus of a 50% divorce rate.
Thankfully there is still the natural reality of attraction;
the ability within man and woman to know what to do when it
comes to attraction. It’s within all of us and more
important than the social pervasive reality that defines
almost all current relations in these societies.
For man to truly begin to succeed with women and attraction,
he must cut through all of the junk, see the matrix for
himself and understand his relation to it.
The fact that women respond to men of high natural character
still doesn’t change; it never will or we would be threatened
with the thought of extinction (note the birth rate is
increasing rapidly in traditional or natural cultures the
most).
Independent career women have less time to raise more kids
in their natural/traditional role as mother and nurturer
(reference; the neighbors in ‘Cheaper by the Dozen’).
Choosing a path of seduction or ‘pick up arts’ in order to
get the end result is now not the only option. There is
another and more powerfully effective way.
You see, current social byproduct (response solutions) like
pick up and seduction have become very popular because the
way women are responding to these men.
Women not being interested, ignoring them, and rejecting
them is very real (and common) so some men have found
another way to counteract it and deal with it (responding to
woman’s general social power as the stimulus). The unnatural
transgression of sexual energy had to find an outlet.
In order to become a successful seducer or ‘PUA’ generally a
man has to study a system of countless techniques and
psychological triggers to try to bring a woman’s level of
interest and attraction up to where it matters.
He will have to face a lot of rejection through his training
to start seeing results…results that work with women
starting on the social level where she has the favor and he
will often try to break down her social identity and her
belief in it so that her judgment becomes more clouded and
in his favor.
If he can ‘talk her into’ it to a point where he comes close
to her expectational/ideal response, then he may ‘get
lucky’. This is the hard road and it’s not natural, although
with practice he can be more effective than being a nice guy
of confused/diminished character who follows the outdated
courtship dating (not mating) ritual.
Overly ‘wooful’, courting men (nice guys) or PUA’s (pick-up
artists) are BOTH trying to work against the natural energy
of what women really want by trying to deal with her on the
social level where she has received the power and they are
now essentially below her (and almost always act it).
She likes the attention and social proof plus all the gifts
and meals at times from the nice guys but there’s a part of
her that is hollow and missing something (no pun intended).
She’s not really attracted to these men and he doesn’t
understand why he keeps buying her all these gifts and she
doesn’t call back and dumps him.
There’s no win/win situation there. I teach my men to keep
things interdependent and not to abuse their power
(potentially over women) when they attain awareness but to
respect women and add value to their lives.
If a woman can just find a man who is upfront, honest and
congruent with who he is and how he lives she’ll respect him
(probably be greatly relieved from social pressures) and
then can decide whether to join him on his adventures or
not…and he doesn’t get rejected.
In the game of attraction and who she is attracted to (who
she chooses and not what she or society says), her decisions
are almost always made on the natural level (although
unhealthy gold-diggers base their decisions on the social
level and teenage boy band fans will become infatuated with
a star’s independent character portrayal).
The biological and natural mating instinct is the timeless
authority that guarantees something like social development
wouldn’t throw nature off it’s course (although it’s now
being threatened).
Everyone knows how to reproduce; we don’t have to be taught
(Return to Blue Lagoon). Social influence has just gotten in
the way. It has confused some men so much that they wonder
if they were ever meant to reproduce or go through the
mating ritual. This is a very true reality for many men.
And yet woman will often end up with jerks and losers
instead who are fearless and strong in natural character
because they’re the closest options available to her
attraction response ideal (of how she ‘feels’ when she’s
with him). Basically our biology is stronger than our social
programming.
And nice guys everywhere will just not get what’s going on
and they will remain confused and disparately powerless or
less than they could be most of their adult lives unless
they really find their own path through the mire.
The answer lies in discovering what society has hidden from
him. It’s not in being the wife-beater t-shirt guy, it’s
about being a man of character; a man who is comfortable in
his own skin and can handle (and please) women without
having to say a word.
This is what women want. A real man. One who is respectful
but never panders to women or let’s them violate his own
(respectful) boundaries. The fact that women have become
more demanding today just makes real relationships harder
but I’m teaching attraction and not ‘dating’ or marriage.
I don’t know when the dating experts will EVER catch up but
they are right about one thing (which is skewed by the
seduction experts); women WANT men to be themselves.
The way seduction experts see it is if you just ‘be
yourself’ you will fail with women so you have to basically
turn yourself into someone you’re not just in order to get
the end result (usually sex).
The way I see it is that men are NOT really being themselves
in the first place. This is where the problem lies; society
has diminished a man’s own sense of masculinity,
independence and his place in the world in relation to
everything else..it’s all watered down so that he has become
a man of lower character and almost unable to instill the
attraction response in women.
It seems the only men that women are ‘attracted to’ (we’re
not talking about what society says she wants about marrying
a ‘nice guy’, etc.) are the bad boys and jerks who used to
be social outcasts.
Why is this so? Simply because the other men aren’t stepping
up to the plate anymore. Our grandfathers were men of high
natural character.
And the men like this that are balanced and high in
character, they’re taken right away by women or in the
greatest demand. This balanced man is rare to find today; a
man who can be himself, has qualities that women want and
isn’t afraid or intimidated of being around beautiful women.
In more scientific terms, men today have become the response
to women as the stimulus (in empowered, forced reality
cultures because the whole world is NOT like this). The
natural reality of attraction (and the MATING not dating
sequence) is that men are the stimulus to which women will
respond to.
A woman will do things to look good so that men will ‘pick
her’ but their relationship or not rests on HER response to
HIM and not how he thinks she looks. She has to sift through
the men of different character to decide.
The men who have the most success with women anywhere have a
high level of ‘character’ in any of the three areas I define
in my free ebook; his natural, independent and social
character.
Good news for men is that women KNOW to respond to men of
high natural character and pick them out of the crowd.
Unfortunately for many women, that means they’ll keep
irrationally choosing to sleep with bad boys who aren’t
emotionally healthy until more guys like us come along.
In fact high social status men wonder if a women are just
using them for their money/power or not (ie. what Jay-Z raps
about).
Women know when a man is who his body says he is; it’s hard
to ‘trick’ her intuition about whether he can give her the
indescribable psychosexual response that only a man of high
natural character can give her (few men reach this level but
about all could).
She is extrapolating and judging men just as harshly as men
judge women. This is a whole area I get into in my free
downloadable ebook on the website.
These physiologically and emotionally based decisions she
makes about men will overrule her strong social influences;
her body and physiological desire can’t resist.
And if a good man can just develop himself and his own
character, he can have great consistent success with women
(while respecting them) and when he does want to settle down
he can find a good woman from many options.
For women, there could be more options of ‘real men’ and
they will stop choosing the bad boy or jerks when they
finally have the option of stable guys who have healthier
character (with just as much natural connection and ability
to please her as the bad boys).
Women will be grateful because there would be more real men
so they don’t have to fight over them as much or be as
lonely. Men just have to become men of higher character and
improve themselves in the 3 areas that matter to women. This
CAN be done with the right resources to bring a man into his
natural destiny.
When a man can be more of himself at all times and he can
communicate with women that he is a man (nonverbally and
verbally) who is not ashamed of who he is; she can respect
this and will know where he stands on her
interest/attraction level (hint; he has a good chance).
And the further he communicates that he really IS the man
she idealized, the easier everything will be to take things
to a connected interdependent experience.
She’s the one who will make the choice and decision of
whether anything’s going to happen so it’s up to a man to
help her out there. Most guys fail before they start by not
being what women want and not following the natural order of
things.
For a naturally successful man who has lots of options of
women he can take his pick but it’s still the woman who are
(eagerly) choosing to be with him.
She can’t tell a man to be ‘more of a man’, he just has to
be that man and then can have all the success he dreams of
with much less dependency on the words to say because he
will be operating from where HIS power lies, his natural
character and ability to make women swoon despite his other
personal faults.
This is about something more important than a quick-fix,
this is about bringing balance back to the force of male and
female relationships.
So my advice is for men to become their true selves of high
character potential and strength in all three areas
(natural, independent/personality and social) which will
henceforth fix almost ALL of their other problems with
attracting and succeeding with women they once were
infatuated.
It’s all about the man and developing his character so that
women will respond (to his characteristics as the stimulus)
the way she dreams of responding when she finds this kind of
man.
That is the underlying current in this crazy, mixed up world
that is still the source of pure hope and life throughout
most cultures. It’s up to a man to embrace and represent the
characteristics of his nature and self that will drive women
wild in reality instead of in their fantasies.
Rion Williams is the celebrated author of ‘Mens Guide
to Women’ and is the first person to quantify and put
in writing ‘what women want’. His free newsletter and
downloadable attraction philosophy eBook can be found
at http://www.modelmagnet.com
Enjoying an open relationship is something that many couples are able to do. While the majority of people out there will tell you that they are involved in a monogamous relationship and they like it that way, there is also a large percentage of that population that has considered or even taken part in an open relationship. An open relationship is simply one that is established, but one or both partners are able to see other people. The extent to which each relationship is open varies, but many people find that an open relationship is much more enjoyable than a strictly monogamous relationship.
Many people first become involved in a monogamous relationship and when it begins to fail many couples decide they simply need to be allowed to see other people outside of the relationship. For some this is a cure and for others it is the end of the end. But, open relationships can often breathe new life into an old relationship, and if both parties are willing to give it a try, it can allow the couple to stay together and make it work, although not in the traditional sense.
To have a truly open relationship, couples need to be willing to communicate with one another. These relationships typically are not full of threesomes, instead each of the individuals pursue relationships outside of their relationship. The couple has to work together to establish how serious these relationships can be, how physical they can become, and whether they need to share the information with one another. Many couples with open relationships simply need to know what their “better half” is up to and then all is well.
Open relationships allow people to stay within a relationship that is comfortable and established, and this can be good as far as comfort level and trust go. This established relationship is essentially the relationship that both people come back to, whether they are dating other people or not. These open relationships also allow people to continue to experiment with new people and new things, even though they are involved in what many would consider a serious relationship, even one that involves marriage. This experimentation is what many people need to continue to be “faithful” within the confines of a marriage or serious relationship.
Open relationships really can be anything that a couple wants them to be. They can be a date every once in awhile with other people, sex with other people, or a whole variety of interactions. Couples need to get together and decide just how open their relationship will be before they act on the new openness. For some people this lifestyle will work, and for some people it doesn’t. This is where each individual and each couple needs to decide for themselves what they want from life and from their interactions with others.
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There are many different types of relationships. Relationships affect our lives in many different ways every day.
Romantic Relationships
Romantic relationships are the type that people most often think of when they think about relationships. Boyfriends, girlfriends and spouses make up the many types of romantic relationships. These relationships involve lots of hormones and emotions and can often end badly if the relationship does not work out. They can be very stressful as one person tries to please the other but they can be very fulfilling as people are filled with love for each other. A romantic relationship can make you feel very complete.
Friendly Relationships
Friendly relationships may include those between our friends, peers, ellow workers, and other acquaintances. These relationships are a very important aspect of your life even if you do not realize it. The company you keep say something about you and the people you are around every day have an impact on the type of person you are and how you feel about hings. These can be very important relationships. Some people depend on these friendly relationships more than others but we are all affected by them in some way.
Family Relationships
Family relationships are those that involve people related to you. This can be the people who live in your household and your immediately family and also your distant relatives. There are bonds between a mother and her children and between a father and children and between siblings. There are some relationships between cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents and all distant family members. These family relationships can also have a big impact on who you are as a person. Some people are very close with many members of their family. Some people have weaker family relationships and this can affect them in different ways.
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James Hunt has spent 15 years as a professional writer and researcher covering stories that cover a whole spectrum of interest. Read more at www.relationships-help.info
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Big No-No’s In Your Relationship with A Woman, Which She Secretly Wish You Knew!
by: Cucan Pemo There are things that women want men to know but do not tell them. This is going to mean the difference between a good relationship and a bad one. If men could only know about these things that are big no-nos and knew what women wanted, they would be able to have happier relationships with the woman in their life.
1) Giving Respect is as Important as Getting It
One thing is respect. Women want to have respect. When it comes to respecting women, some men are not so good at it. This may end up resulting in them losing out in the relationship. It is important to show respect to a woman that you are involved with or any woman for that matter. Give them an opportunity to see that you can be a good guy and that you can respect what they believe and let them have their own feelings about things.
Respect is going to be shown through actions. You can do nice things for a woman like opening up the door, giving up your seat or talking to her differently with passion and concern. It is not acceptable to just fake some charm on a first date. You need to be real and up front about how you are going to be in the relationship on a day-to-day basis.2) Being Kind to the World
Being kind is another secret that most men do not know that women want. Women want their man to be kind to everyone. They want them to nice to everyone that they meet to some degree.
Treating others nicely will mean that they are kind and are going to give the same type of treatment that they deserve and expect from everyone else. Kindness can go a long way to a women’s heart and it should be something that men think about.
3) Having Accountability for Actions
Women want men to have accountability. They wan to make sure that men are going to take the responsibility for the things that they have done. This can mean anything from the smallest problem to bigger life changing events that happen in their life. Women want to make sure that they are with a man that is going to be a stand-up guy and do what they are supposed to do.
4) Loving Family
One no no that women hate is a man that does not love her family. Women want to have a man that is going to love their family and take on the pressures of family life in a good way.
This means their parents, brothers, sisters and children all the same. They need to know that they can rely on their husbands or boyfriends to do what is needed of them. Most women need someone that they can trust and whom they know is going to be there for them when they are most in need.
5) Being Safe and Secure
Women want to also feel safe with their men. They want to know that they have nothing to worry about and that they are in good hands when they are with them. Having the feeling of security is going to mean all the difference when a woman is with their man. They want to be secure not only with their man but they also want to know that their man is going to be there to protect them when they need it the most.
Women need to make sure that their man is taking their relationship seriously. They want to know that their man is going to be there for them no matter what and they want to make sure that they are for real in the partnership.
Try not to joke around all the time and laugh about things in the relationship as this is going to insult some women and make them feel low. Women want their men to be committed and serious about what is going on in the relationship just as they do.
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Love Magic: How to Attract Your Perfect Partner for Passion, Profession or Play
by Keith Varnum
The Myths that Keep Us from Love
Are society’s relationship myths causing you to give up on love or settle for less than what you want?
Most of the people who taught us about love are people who don’t let themselves be loved. Hello? What’s wrong with this picture? A little wacky, yes? Yes!
In truth, is there any good reason to withhold love from yourself? The accurate answer is “No!” Let’s do a Reality Check on love.
Myth #1 — You have to work at having a good relationship.
Reality: A relationship that is good for you does not take work. If you have so many problems and disharmonies in a partnership that it feels like work to stay involved, then the person is not right for you. Differences of opinion, style and preference should be a source of intrigue and attraction, not a quagmire of argument and conflict.
Myth #2 — Negotiation, compromise and sacrifice are necessary for two people to have a successful partnership.
Reality: Not every day! Frequent negotiation, compromise and sacrifice are warning signs of a doomed relationship. If you find yourself having to negotiate, compromise or sacrifice more than once a week to keep your partnership going, that relationship has too many natural disharmonies to be right for you, or the other person. Fun, nurturing, lasting partnerships are based on natural mutuality — an organic harmony of traits and values that already exist before the two people meet, not after they both give up their spirit to “make things work.” If a relationship is hard, troublesome and requires a lot of struggle and effort, guess what? No amount of communication or counseling is going to make that connection easy, fun or fruitful.
Myth #3 — All the good ones are taken.
Reality: Every single person has a special, perfect someone waiting for them. The togetherness we long for is assured. We have pre-arranged with one or more personal soulmates to meet this lifetime in order to help each other open to love. All you need to do is remove the living room couch, refrigerator and kitchen sink from blocking the front door to your house (heart) so that your destined lover can get in!
Myth #4 — You can borrow good qualities from your “better half.”
Reality: You can for a while. But you need to quickly become — rather than borrow — those good qualities. Otherwise, you’re dependent on the other person for the better qualities. Enjoy intimacy as a mutual exchange of energy between interdependent equals. Address your flaws, and become the type of person you’d like to date. The Law of Attraction rules in seeking a partner. Like vibration attracts like vibration. If you possess the qualities that you want in a partner, the law of attraction will work for you.
Myth #5 — If I can just change my partner’s behavior, things will be better.
Reality: Famous last words! YOU can’t change other people. They need to evolve on their own path at their own pace. Besides, you are always dating yourself anyway! In truth, your partner is solely — souly — a liberating mirror reflection of your own consciousness. You must change your inside world for the outside world to improve. You are always meeting yourself in others. If you’re not happy with the type of person you are attracting, take a look at the type of person you are.
Myth #6 — A member of the opposite sex — or energy — will balance me out.
Reality: Being balanced is an inside job. Fuse the forces of your feminine and masculine energies to tap your full potential. Cultivate playfulness, laughter and self-revealing humor. Invite serendipity and surprise to reveal your other side. Welcome the unexpected and spontaneous from yourself!
Myth #7 — I have to take what I get; I can’t be choosy.
Reality: Invoke the basic Feng-shui Law of the Vacuum: You must be willing to walk away from what you don’t want so that you can be available (empty, receptive, open) for what you do want. The next perfect partner for you can’t come into your life if your love space is filled with someone you are tolerating, settling for, or simply using to avoid loneliness.
Myth #8 — I’m stuck with a lousy Love Script.
Reality: You can re-write your Personal Love Theme with a better ending. Choose to be innocent (free) of the effect of the past. Performing an autopsy on a failed relationship can be a very valuable tool in helping you understand which areas you need to work on to be more successful in your next relationship. Then be willing to acquire or develop the skills and qualities required to help you be more successful in your next connection.
Myth #9 — I have to give up my personal freedom to be in a committed relationship. Love = Ball & Chain.
Reality: Real love and freedom go hand in hand. In a soulmate connection based on the optimal spiritual evolution of each party, you can maintain personal freedom while opening to profound intimacy. Give your commitment and trust to the spirit, rather than the form, of the relationship. Sometimes lack of communication is the culprit, if you view a partnership as bondage. Identify the amount of space you need to be happy in a relationship and learn how to communicate your desire to your partner.
Myth #10 — Because of “Original Sin,” I don’t deserve love.
Reality: Original Sin was actually only an Original Misunderstanding. The so-called Original Sin we committed was that we thought we were separate from God. Turns out we’re not. The Good News is that we were wrong. There is no bad news.
Myth #11 — Relationships take time, effort and energy.
Reality: The only effort involved is keeping love away. We spend countless hours successfully dodging love at every point of contact in our lives. Every encounter with another human being is an opportunity to receive love — in the form of kindness, generosity, a warm handshake or a shared laugh. Right relationships give you energy. Lousy relationships drain your energy.
Myth #12 — If I open my heart, my partner can hurt my feelings. Love = Pain.
Reality: Other people cannot hurt our feelings; they can only trigger feelings that are already hurt within us. The hurt feelings are already present in our consciousness — in our past, our personality, our programming. In truth, your partner is doing you a big favor by bringing up a wound, a sore spot, within a loving context — for the purpose of healing and releasing it. It’s not possible to avoid hurt feelings in life or a relationship. But you can use the support of real love to move the hurt feelings up and out.
Myth #13 — Another person can “fill the hole” we feel inside.
Reality: Temporarily at best! Only you can permanently “fulfill the whole” within yourself. Helpfully, for a while, a partner can remind you of what it feels like to feel loved and whole. Then if you surf that wave of connection, you can arrive at the shore of lasting self-love.
Myth #14 — It’s best to hide your Shadow from the other person.
Reality: It’s best to reveal your weaknesses and faults as soon as possible. It’s not called “in-to-me-see” for nothing. There’s no way to get close to someone and not have your whole self eventually revealed. Learn to dance with your Dark Side. Learn to love everything about your unique self — the whole enchilada, warts and all. The American Plains Indians revealed their worst deficiencies and flaws on their warrior shields. They knew that acknowledging the truth of our shortcomings gives us strength. Full self-acceptance is our greatest asset.
Myth #15 — If I just loose weight, I’ll attract the lover of my dreams.
Reality: Weight has nothing to do with exercise, genes, diet or how much we eat. Maintaining our perfect body weight is a direct function of the free flow of love in our lives. Weight has everything to do with our beliefs about exercise, genes, diet or how much we eat. And the nurturing quality of our beliefs about exercise, genes, diet or how much we should eat are a direct result of our willingness to have love flow freely in our lives.
Myth: #16 — I’m afraid of rejection or abandonment.
Reality: Spread the heartening news: We cannot be rejected by another person unless we have rejected ourselves first. We leave love — love never leaves us. This is a good thing. It means we are in the driver’s seat. It means we can open — and keep open — the door to love anytime we choose. Find a way to move into more self-acceptance and your days of rejection and abandonment are history.
Myth #17 — Relationships are made on Earth.
Reality: Relationships are made in Heaven. Embrace love for what it truly is: a mystical sacrament and a sensual communion. Align your description of your Earthly Dream Partner with the design of your soulmate agreement, and you will find your Heavenly babe TODAY!
Myth #18 — I need to marry — or get a formal commitment — from my partner to keep them around.
Reality: “Things which go together naturally need not be tied.” -Lao Tzu, Chinese sage
Copyright © 2005 Keith Varnum
About Keith: Keith Varnum shares his practical approach to transformation as an author, radio host and “Dream Workshops” facilitator. Keith helps people get love, money, health and spirit with his free Prosperity Ezine, free Empowerment CD and free Coaching at www.TheDream.com.
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7 Secrets to Finding Joy
by Keith Varnum
To pursue happiness is an inalienable right. To experience happiness is not. No one owes you happiness. No one can ensure your happiness. Happiness is a choice — your choice.
The key to experiencing happiness is to put joy on your life agenda along with completing tasks and goals. Joy is a direct result of intention. Your intention determines how you experience each moment of your day, each aspect of your world. As you go through your daily activities, ask yourself, “What’s my intention?” A clear, strong intention for happiness helps you stay focused on fun and joy.
Here are a few actions you can take to make joy part of your Earth journey:
1. Get outside yourself.
Take the focus off yourself and commit to being a Contributor rather than a Survivor. This may seem like odd advice, but consider how attractive “needy” feels. Ask others how you can support them and they will naturally want to support you. Life is a cosmic boomerang — you get back what you send out.
Conduct a regular inner dialogue with your higher self. Say to your higher self, “I know you are here. I want to get to know you and pay attention to you. Please speak to me and guide my life.”
Don’t worry if this dialogue is entirely one-way at first. You may have been out of touch for a while. It takes time to clear the cobwebs. Persist with this inner dialogue as if you are talking to a friend — chatting, asking questions, sharing your hopes and dreams. Sweep away mental chatter of the dead past and the uncertain future. Listen for answers. They will come.
As you begin to view life as a cosmic drama in which you are playing a very public starring role, the role of the higher self will become increasingly evident in your life.
2. Be a beacon of light.
Get out of your comfort zone. Become a beacon of lightheartedness. You’ll be closer to your soul’s perspective. Become a bright sparkling source of energy and let it reflect in all that you do. Let your spirit define who you are rather than the outside world. Turn up the volume on what you do best.
Set an upbeat pace at home and at work. Do a little more than you have to. Give a little more than is expected. Consider it an experiment and watch how others respond to you. Then see how you feel at the end of the week. If you find joy unbearable, you can always go back to being grumpy.
3. Create space for yourself.
Spend some quiet time with yourself every day. It’s very important to have a place or time just for yourself. Give everything in your environment a personal touch. Create a room or private corner that fills you with joy and feels like home.
If noise and activity constantly bombard your life, you are drowning out your inner guidance. Just sit quietly with no expectations. Do nothing. This may feel very uncomfortable and strange in the beginning. Persist. Give time and space for the inner voice to make itself heard. It will do so either during that quiet time, or through signs and messages during the events of your life. A synchronistic happening will occur. Someone will tell you exactly what you need to hear. You will get a sudden flash of insight.
Meditate. Breathe. Become a quiet, clear, pure vessel for the higher self to fill. Listen to yourself and trust what you hear. Let go of other people’s voices in your head.
4. Learn from your lows.
Discover lessons to make your life better. Find value in trauma. Develop your resilience — your ability to bounce back from mishaps. Taking a closer, more intuitive look at your tumbles can help you find a gift even in a hardship. Contented people transform problems into opportunities and trauma into something meaningful and constructive.
Ask, “What good might result from this? How did I contribute to creating this? Is it making me stronger, wiser, more compassionate? What can I learn from this so that I can do better next time?”
Understand that failure is often a precursor to success — often in ways we can’t predict. Let your life adventures teach you. Many people get caught in what — or who — is right or wrong instead of looking at the deeper understanding that can be gleaned from the incident. Use life’s roller coaster to change and thrive.
5. Celebrate the success of others.
Celebrating the success of others takes you one step closer to being able to appreciate your own successes — rather than hiding from achievement or fearing failure. Invest attention and energy in the people you love and care about. Meaningful relationships are developed and sustained by positive attitude and action.
Make people a priority. Prioritizing relationships is a more certain path to bliss than chasing after wealth, status or power — even if you’ve got a good chance of acquiring them.
6. Cultivate beauty.
Find a place where you can experience all of the sacred Four Elements: Earth, Air, Water and Fire (sun). Reset your energetic rhythms by tuning into Nature. Allow all Four Elements to create a symphony of sensation around you, replenish your vitality, and help you return to the flow. Visit the ocean, a forest stream, or a park with a lake or a manmade fountain.
Take in some art. Art has an energy all its own. And don’t just observe the beauty, but rather immerse yourself in a work of art. The colors and shapes will awaken your senses and inner spirit.
7. Take your dream up a notch every day.
Widen your worldview. Stretch your horizons. We’re brought up with a largely materialistic worldview that neglects the role of Spirit in our lives. To establish close contact with spiritual realms, we need to have our entire being — conscious and unconscious — congruent with our soul blueprint. Seek out writings and teachers that expand your understanding of the universe as being fundamentally the playground of consciousness and Spirit.
Copyright © 2005 Keith Varnum
About Keith: Keith Varnum shares his practical approach to transformation as an author, radio host and “Dream Workshops” facilitator. Keith helps people get love, money, health and spirit with his free Prosperity Ezine, free Empowerment CD and free Coaching at www.TheDream.com.
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by: Misty Rae Cech, ND
Getting started with aromatherapy? Here’s a little primer for the beginning to intermediate student of this practice, with some important notes about essential oil safety - There are three traditional methods of using essential oils for ‘aromatherapy’, which have been termed the English, French and German models.
The English model consists of what is now termed ‘aromatherapy massage’ - involving the dilution of essential oils in ‘carrier’ or ‘base’ oils and application topically to the skin. Because both the essential oils and the carrier oils are compatible with the skin, the essential oils are absorbed into the bloodstream with subsequent physiological effect.
Topical application is the preferred method of use for many essential oils. However, MOST essential oils require significant dilution (often to less than 3% of the total volume) as they can cause skin irritation. Lavender Oil and Chamomile Oil are two essential oils that can be applied ‘neat’ or without dilution; others, such as Cinnamon Oil and Oregano Oil should never be applied topically undiluted - they may be applied once highly diluted to the bottoms of the feet. A VERY small amount should be tested first.
The interesting thing about topical application is that essential oils tend to pass through the skin fairly readily, as they are lipotropic (fat soluble) and their molecular structure is fairly small. In this manner, their possible effects can be targeted - if one has digestive trouble, rubbing Peppermint Oil diluted in a carrier oil (a pure vegetable or nut oil) into the abdomen may help. In the same way, rubbing Chamomile Oil or Lavender Oil into the solar plexus (bottom tip of the sternum) may help relieve tension.
The French model consists of ingestion and ‘neat’ or undiluted topical application of essential oils. Perhaps these somewhat bravado methods are a result of the French producing some of the world’s finest Lavender oils - also considered one of the safest oils in aromatherapy. As in the English model, essential oils will easily pass through the skin and into the bloodstream. Many individuals directly apply oils such as Frankincense, Sandalwood and Myrhh to their temples to enhance meditation, for example. This is a practice one should begin slowly with, being sure the body or skin does not show any adverse reactions to before proceeding.
ORAL INJESTION OF ESSENTIAL OILS IS NOT RECOMMENDED EXCEPT UNDER THE GUIDANCE OF A DOCTOR OR A QUALIFIED AROMATHERAPIST.
The German model is that of inhalation, where the essential oils will directly affect the lymbic system, and the intimately associated emotional and hormonal systems. Oils are often diffused in a cold-air diffuser, warmer or oil lamp - these tools disperse tiny droplets of essential oils in the surrounding air. When inhaled, the oils connect directly to the nervous system’s chemical sensors. Certain oils that are high in sesquiterpines such as myrrh, sandalwood, vetiver and frankincense oils, have been noted to dramatically increase activity and oxygenation in certain areas of the brain when used this way.
With inhalation go slowly and start with a small amount - essential oils are effective in very low doses. You will know when you’ve had enough - we tend to notice a distaste for the smell or even a mild headache coming on if the concentration of certain oils in the air has gotten too high.
Inhalation is often effective for mood-altering effects of essential oils; Rosemary for mental ’stimulation’, Lavender for relaxation, etc. These effects are a result of essential oil components on the lymbic system of the brain - which again is closely tied to the emotional centers.
Essential oil components from one plant may have synergistic effects with another. One may certainly blend essential oils in a diffuser or burner, adding a couple drops of each oil desired. Often a nice result can be had from mixing a brighter or sweeter oil (Rosemary, Basil, Orange) with one more earthy and grounding (Patchouli, Frankincense, Cedar). The effects are very personal - if you don’t like the smell of a particular essential oil or combination of oils, there’s probably a reason and they’re just not for you! Your intake could be too high or the oil(s) may not be compatible with your body chemistry at that time.
A note about safety: Essential Oils are very powerful components of plants - they have the capability of being harmful if improperly used. Essential Oils can be very helpful for some cases, supportive in others, and have little to no effect in others. They are not intended to treat or cure serious medical conditions; there is no substitute for a consultation with a competent physician for any matters regarding your health, or anyone else. If you are pregnant, planning to get pregnant, or breast feeding, it is critical you consult your physician before using any essential oil. Please be sure there are no contraindications of an essential oil for your condition before using! Almost all essential oils should be diluted to the range of 1% to 3% in your chosen carrier (or ‘base’) oil - Lavender and Chamomile Oils being notable exceptions (though diluting them will make them no less effective).
Remember - start slowly, pay attention to how an oil and it’s particular application makes you feel, adjust accordingly, keep learning, and have fun!
About The Author
Misty Rae Cech, ND is a naturopath and yoga teacher practicing in Boulder, Colorado. She is the owner of http://www.anandaapothecary.com and http://www.ananda-aromatherapy.com.
Various Back Massage Techniques
by: Saurabh Jain
Back Massage is one of the best ways through which you can relive yourself from back pain. You can use various back massage techniques for benefits, such as relaxation, increased body awareness, better blood circulation and improved lymphatic drainage for release of toxins. Selecting a right back massage technique is important for receiving maximum benefits.
Typically, during the back massage, a masseur uses massage oil to decrease friction created on the skin and to prevent the pulling of skin hair. The less the quantity of oil applied, the greater is the friction and deeper will be the pressure. Use light stroking movements throughout your massage to move from one area to another, to soothe an area of localized deep tissue or to make a transition to another stroke.
Step By Step Guide for Back Massage
Mentioned below are few steps, which detail a back massage technique for relieving one from back pain.
The person receiving the massage should lie down on his/her belly on a firm, comfortable surface, such as a floor mat or firm bed. Make sure that you the whole back of the massage receiver is comfortably within reach. Stand by the side of the person and place one hand on the lower back and teh other between the shoulder blades, over the heart.
Warm up the back by applying thumb pressure along both sides of the spine simultaneously: Start from the lower back and knead gently with your thumbs up to the neck area. This will also promote relaxation.
Use a smooth, delicate stroke, called “effleurage”, to apply massage oil. In one long stroke, slide your palms down either
side of the spine to the pelvis; scoop out around the hips and back up the sides to the shoulders. Maintain contact with the back. Move your hands over the back to start a new area. Continue up both sides of the neck to the base of the head.
Starting at the spine, slide your palms in opposite directions outward to the sides of the back, starting with the lower back area, and moving up to the shoulders.
Knead the fleshy muscular areas at the top of the shoulders, the mid-back area and the buttocks to loosen any tight muscles and fascia, which is a connective tissue.
About The Author
Saurabh Jain is the Executive Editor of Online Back pain resource, www.backpain-resources-online.com. He has developed this site to provide valuable information to people suffering from back pain. This site enumerates different causes and factors related to back pain, guides through the different back pain treatments and suggests exercises for treatments of different types of back pain. The site is a free online resource for back pain and its remedies. The visitors can also find valuable information and reviews about the different equipments and therapies for back pain relief. Visit
www.backpain-resources-online.com for more information.
Top Seven Ways To Dazzle your Lady
By Lindsey Stewart 
Article Word Count: 438
Men don’t have to be totally mushy and feminine to be romantic. Romance is very sexy. It is one attractive quality that is never overlooked and always appreciated. Men feel intimidated and do not feel that they can be romantic. It’s so simple and the reward is so high. TYour lady will be impressed. These are the Top 7 Ways to Dazzle Your Lady:
1. Be Thoughtful
Everyone enjoys a romantic surprise. Bring home some flowers, pour her a cup of coffee in bed in the mornings, bring her lunch to work, meet her at the park to walk, pick her up something whenever you think of her; like her favorite icecream at the store.
2. Make a List of Special Days
The days that are special to you and your lady, like your aniversary or the day you first kissed or went on your first trip together, remember to set aside quality time to spend with your lady. If you really want to wow her, cook her favorite meal for her. It is super sexy to see a man in the kitchen.
3. Always Look Your Best
What is that with people you are closest to, you seem to feel so comfortable you no longer dress up. That is not appropriate. Men must look their best; clean shaven, groomed hair, smelling nice, and dressed for success. Girls go crazy about a sharp dressed man. This is a fact.
4. Reach Out and Touch Her
This dazzling move will make her melt. Women need to be touched and held to feel loved. A nice bubble bath and massage will make her feel feminine and beautiful. Rub her shoulders, touch her hair, hold hands.
5. Discuss Your Day
Be attentive and listen to her. Ask her about her day, and interact. Be present in the conversation. Tell her about yours and let her comment. It means a lot to women to be heard.
6. Create A Photo Album
Make a compilation of your sweetest moments together. Put them together in an album and get a card, then take her to dinner or order takeout. Present the album to her when you two are alone.
7. Think of Her Often
Let her know she is on your mind. Call her throughout the day just to tell her you are thinking of her, send text messages and emails telling her how much you miss her and cannot wait to be with her again. It is always sweet to know someone is thinking of you.
See, if you follow these simple tools, you will become effectively romantic before you know it. Being romantic is absolutely beautiful. Your woman is sure to be dazzled and impressed.
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How to Know if You Love Someone - Simple yet Powerful Ways to Find Out
By Pushpa Pal Singh
Article Word Count: 417
Most people have this feeling inside them but are not sure whether it is simple affection, a crush or maybe love. Well love is a lot more stronger word than simple affection and attraction towards someone. Love involves much more than what you find in simple attraction towards someone. Read on to find out some of the simple yet powerful ways to find out whether you love someone or not.
You’re happy when your partner is? - If you feel joy when your partner is happy and just a mere smile or his/her face gives you happiness than you are definitely in love with that person. Love is all about feeling one with your partner therefore you tend to enjoy all joys, lovely moments, moments of satisfaction with your partner.
You don’t mind public affection? - Do you often hold hands in public - maybe kiss or hug? If this is the case than you might be in love with your partner. Normally most couples don’t prefer showing much public affection until and unless they are in love.
Caring like family- Do you care for your partner just as you care for your family? And get sad when your partner is sad or maybe get happy when you partner is? Love is all about caring and sharing. And if you treat your partner just like you treat your family than you are definitely in love.
You feel like being an open book- When you love someone you feel like being an open book and tend to share some of your biggest secret which you would never even share with your closest of friends. Love makes you surrender totally and you feel like pouring your heart out.
You talk without getting bored - Mostly when it’s just a mere crush or attraction you would easily get bored after a while. Everything would just seem boring and you would not feel like carrying on any more. But when you are in love you would always have something to talk about, it would never get boring no matter how long and how much you talk.
You would sacrifice- This is the best way to find out whether you are in love or not. If you are ready to sacrifice something for your partners comfort then you are definitely in love. Love is all about sacrifices and compromises and if you are truly in love you would not mind being committed and making sacrifices for the one you love.
You might not be able to make the person fall in love with you on the first sight but you can definitely make the person be strongly attracted to you if you follow some simple steps. So what type of guys do women truly prefer? Find out some of the “Best kept secrets” on how to become a guy women want- http://girlmagnet.exploreoffers.com
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