Erogenous Zones
Erogenous Zones are those area’s of the body which produce a heightened sense of arousal or response when stimulated.
Both men and women have several differening erogenous zones around their bodies and it can be a great deal of fun exploring someone to find out just what turns them on, and what doesn’t.
One important thing to remember is that not every person will respond in the same way to the same stimulations, and to continue doing something that your partner is uncomfortable with can be the cause of a lot of tension and possible resentment. This will result in a less than pleasureable experience when giving or receiving a sensual massage.
Equally important is the amount of pressure to be used. The best advice when beginning is that lighter pressure is better. Light kisses, gently tongue flicking and soft caresses will help stimulate the nerve-endings in the skin, and will lead to a teasing, tantalising experience for the receiver.
The Key - Begin light and G-R-A-D-U-A-L-L-Y increase pressure.
Some of the main Erogenous Zones are as follows.
Women:-
Whilst it is said that a woman’s mind is her greatest erogenous zone, and the effort taken to arouse her mind with romance and sensuality far outweighs any physical stimulation, exploring her body can be of great benefit to you both.
The lips, stomach, breasts and nipples, scalp, nape and back of neck, buttocks, back of knees, inner thighs, feet and toes, earlobes, shoulders, and genitals are all wonderful places to kiss, probe, caress, lick and suck whilst exploring what arouses her. She will let you know with her reaction which ones are the best to concentrate on.
It is important not to jump straight to the genitals or breasts. Setting the right mood with the proper preparation and correct technique will serve to prolong her sense of awareness and arousal in a wonderful way.
Men: -
It is well known that men respond to different cues than women do. Whilst a woman may respond to the setting, the smells and the ambience of a particular setting, men will generally respond in a more aroused manner to visual cues, but again, the stimulation of the important erogenous zones, along with visual cues, will be very benefical to both of you.
The main Erogenous Zones to explore for men may include the lips, earlobes, nape of neck, nipples, buttocks and genitals.
